everyday's Datingish

Someone help me please..

Sat, 21 Mar 2009 09:55:02 GMT

I'm sorry I'm just feeling very down now
It hasn't even been a month and she has hinted about breaking up
this is the first relationship of my life
I want it to last.

I love her.
I really do.

I keep telling myself, and her,
that of course at the start it's going to be rocky
I thought our love was strong enough to sail through
I believe we can do it.
I just need to convince her that we can.

she says she hates all those rumours flying about
we can't admit them cuz it's just gonna make things worse.
you know, all the high school drama..

love takes time to nurture
I have all the patience in the world
I have faith in her and I do hope she has it as well.

but here's the dilemma
(I love her.)
should I get out of it while I still can, so that it's not going to hurt that much
or do I plow on and hope for the best?
I really don't want to think about this..

I'm so screwed.

I just got into the first relationship of my life

Sun, 15 Mar 2009 05:45:12 GMT

I'm 15. She's 14. End of story-- puppy love? No, I don't think so... I haven't got looks, I'm an uncool dude, so I think it's not just physical attraction for her. I hope it's something more than that. Not just the fact that I treat her good and that I'm a decent guy (at least I think I am), I hope she likes me (loves me) for who I am, and for who she can be with me.

We've known each other for a year or so but we're from different classes, and we studied together for the exams, that's when the feelings started.
We're into the second week. I haven't kissed her yet-- still working up the nerve to do it. Call me chicken, call me coward, whatever. I hope she understands...

However, there are some questions I'd like to ask
1. The thing is rumors are already flying that we're 'together', and we don't like that. That could be potentially disastrous. How do I deal with it? When my classmates ask, do I shrug and say "we're just great friends" or laugh it off? What attitude should I take when confronted?

2. We don't have much time together. I write her love letters almost daily and she replies (^_^), we talk on msn and on the phone all the time, but that's definitely not enough to maintain our relationship. What could I do?

3. There's this guy who has been chasing her for... years. She has rejected him multiple times but it doesn't work, and she tells me of his sms's and e-mails and fb messages and stuff. I thank her for being honest with me. However that doesn't stop me from worrying about the future... deep down I am freaked out over that but should I just play it cool? 4. What is the key to a long and loving relationship?

I'm a first-timer. I'm still learning...

I love you...

Sunday, March 15, 2009

Sun, 15 Mar 2009 05:31:12 GMT

Hi everyone! I'm just getting started on Datingish... Drop me a comment if you've got some ideas on what to do first - or just to say, "Hi!"